Every time I’m on the train I end up sitting next to a couple having a full on snog. “Im like great, go for it but please not when I’m sitting right next to you”. Main reason being that it’s awkward, I genuinely do not know we’re to look.
Okay, so I hold hands and have the occasional peck and cuddle when I’m out on a date with my partner nothing over the top, but some couples just really go for it. I’m talking full on snogging with tongues intertwined and inappropriate groping.(ewww)
Don’t get me wrong its great that these couples are so affectionate towards one and other and want to show it, but their is a time and a place.
I understand that when you love someone you may want the world to know and therefore you find it hard to refrain from physical intimacy, but their are definitely more appropriate settings were this can be done, instead of public transport, parks and resturants for example.
PDA’s do not show the measurement of love you have for a person. These acts of intimacy simply draw attention to the couple,which for some people may be the aim. This could also be perceived as seeking outside acknowledgment.
To sum this up, my personal opinion is that people definitely express love in different ways. However when out in public this should be displayed in moderation. one should always be aware that not everyone wants to see too much affection as it tends to make by standers feel uncomfortable.
On the other hand it is a personal preference and no one can judge a person for choosing to physically express their love publicly.
Lastly PDA definitely does not make a relationship stronger. Some people would simply share some types of affection with their partner in private like myself rather than for all to see.
I would love to know your opinion on this topic, how much PDA is too much??
Enjoyed reading this post😊
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Your post made me remember a couple who had a full on snog in the Vatican Museum! It was a cringe-worthy episode a’right xD
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I can only imagine, it is really cringy seeing such PDA especially in that type of environment x
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I can only imagine, it is really cringy seeing such PDA especially in that type of environment x
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I am so there with you when it comes to PDA. There are other ways to show love, and it can be unspoken. I don’t have to feel awkward because you want the world to see that the side chick is your boo!
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I definitely agree that their are other ways to show love instead of through PDA ,it is so cringy to be around.
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As an old libertarian I mind not what others do save for that which is against the law…interesting take you have on the world about you.
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